Archive November 2017

When your BEST isn’t GOOD ENOUGH – Society and its Expectations

When your BEST isn’t GOOD ENOUGH – Society and its Expectations

“The unhappiest people in this world, are those who care the most about what other people think.” ― C. JoyBell C.     Once upon a time, there lived a small mouse in the meadow. It had everything it needed: food, shelter and a great life. The other animals of the forest however, mocked the mouse and its simple way of life constantly. They said that the mouse wasn’t living up to its full potential. “He

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Letters – A way of Expression

My childhood memories flashed before my eyes like a movie, there was a burst of nostalgia when I saw the girl (child character of #Alia Bhatt in #Dear Zindagi) writing letters to her mom. As a child, I used to write letters. Unusual but I used to write letters to myself, I grew with myself. Sharing my smallest of the desires, temptations to eat wood apple (kothu), my aspirations to become a surgeon, my fantasies

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An experience on a rainy and tiring day!

An experience on a rainy and tiring day!

Rains in Bangalore is a normal phenomenon. It brings the greatest joy, at the same time cripples life in such an extent that traffic becomes monstrous, stranding people all over the place and creating utter chaos all over the place. It was just another day when I had gone to Ridhani’s production unit and was going to be late from work. Generally the days I am at the production unit, my day gets extended. That

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“Hiatus”

“Hiatus”

“Hiatus” Torn being awakening soul, And interrupted memories are melting As if graveyard mist! Chasing ritzy delights of life, Imprisoned in words, Of rises and falls! Emptiness since an epoch! Barren pages in quest of the missing, Silky loin in her dawn! Torn being awakening soul! copyrights reserved (c) 2017, 25th March nitusmita saikia (published)  

Fighting Forgiving

Fighting Forgiving

My wife and I fought a lot post a few months in our marriage. We’d have a high decibel match almost every day about something. Argumentatively I’d switch off my emotions. She’d wait for me to do something not to her liking and I’d wait for her to say something that was irrational in my thoughts, and we’d go against each other like the battering ram. Towards the end with no outcome out of it

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Mindset and Belief

Mindset and Belief

Mindset and Belief I had a great curiosity why some people bounce very high in their life while some still stay at the bottom.  I wanted to probe into the strategies of truly successful people.  I wanted to know what went through their minds and what they felt.  This curiosity lies in millions of people who want to succeed in their lives.  A lot of books pertaining to the habits of highly successful people have

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Different Phases of love

Different Phases of love

What are the different phases of love? This is big question mark in everyone’s life and forced to nod their heads; if conversation starts among the group on so called topic   “Love”; If we heard the name of love, first thought comes to our mind that we always tried to harmonized the meaning of love with our ” life partner ” & next thought comes to our mind (Cerebrum part of the brain) — Existence of “life partner” in

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A Promise on this Children’s Day

A Promise on this Children’s Day

Deepthi Musley FB Page   A day which is glorified should be known to one and all for its special reason and worth. Commemorating a day without virtue is like living a life without purpose. In the last seven years of motherhood, I have witnessed children outgrowing their age at a rapid speed within the age group of 3-8 years. Sadly, the community of virtuous adults has had to pay the penalty of fear for

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Not to lose yourself in a relationship-II

Samay is unwittingly staring at the shadows of distant vehicles looming in front of his face while abed and striving to get the clarity of the situation. Writhing in pain,he didn’t even realize that he has been awake all night.It’s been long past five in the morning and his thought stream broke by the chirping of birds and newspaper vans outside but the pain didn’t subside. Samay was still tossing on bed. It’s been only

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Death everywhere!

Death everywhere!

Masterpiece! Emitting lusterless ray of light, The hurricane lamp paints a monochrome of shadows; old trembling hands of Picasso is making graphics of worn out lives under the thatched roof. Amidst those droplets of light and patches of darkness, she looks for her mirror of which she gets scared now a days. Her face she finds ugly in daylight as she burns like unwanted weed among fleshy swelling wheat. She trembles; will she be able

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Grow through Life

Grow through Life

They say you write well I say okay I write as I feel Feel bogged down at times And still I continue to move on For a voice inside me screams. If something were meant to happen anyways Why am I writing at all? An experience or a lesson I consider them fair For they taught me How unreal it is to be in despair. Singing a good old song Without the strings in my

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UNASKED QUESTION

UNASKED QUESTION

Today I am diverting bit from my CHANGE YOUR EMOTIONS, CHANGE YOUR LIFE series.  Today remembered an instance happened few years back and felt to share the same. This is neither a story nor an article.  It’s just my thoughts felt to share with “May I come in?” Shruti – one of my clients was asking me. “Welcome Shruti. Please come in. I replied. I continued, “After long time I am seeing you.  You are

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Dream of Golden farm!

Dream of Golden farm!

Pair of hazel eyes Beserk to sail, dear! Through your eyes, Those pair of hazel eyes! Tickling my soul, Sprinkling greenish brown seeds of love.Hue of Autumn eve plays there, As if the ripen field of my exudation In the valley of mountain, For I am the solitary reaper of your eyes. Those pair of hazel eyes! A poem of hazel dreams! Dream of golden field of swollen wheat, As you flicked on and off

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Not to lose yourself in a relationship.

It was raining heavily outside.Netra was alone in her home determined to enjoy the weather outside and sort out everything inside. Thinking of her past only brought tears in her eyes. Sitting in her balcony and sipping her favorite hot ginger tea she realised there is no point saying her feelings to her husband. Words will not have any impact anymore. There was a turmoil inside her. 2 bhk spacious flat suddenly started to have

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How I lost Nayaz

How I lost Nayaz

Deepthi Musley Fb Page Deepthi Musley Blog Page Meeting someone is never a casual affair. Some who vanish into thin air without announcing, leave you with the best memories to cherish for life, and a mystery to solve. On a usual day at college, I went to the parking lot to grab my scooter & hurry back home, when I heard a gruff but polite voice ask me from behind: “May I help you, please?”

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LET’S NOT WEAVE THE COCOONS OF ATTACHMENT!

LET’S NOT WEAVE THE COCOONS OF ATTACHMENT!

Every Soul(Human being)in this world likes to be loved & cared but due to ignorance we get misled by attachment & get confused for Love,so a question strikes our mind is love &attachment same or different? or to Love a person means is it to get Attached?definitely not  then what is Attachment?Well the answer for this is Love & Attachment are poles apart.In this context we can recall famous Buddhist quote as “Attachment is the

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Priceless Penfriends

This My poem dedicated to all unknown pen friends 🙂 Who are you! & who am I! Together evolve to simply rely In digging the diction to supply To present an enchanting reply Who are you! & Who am I! In copious prank one cope up first With a Hoity-Toity  laughter we always burst Its neither a love nor a lust Oh yes! Oh yes! Oh yes!-its just An epitomize of mere mutual trust. Now,you

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It’s Just Right There

It’s Just Right There

I say it’s just right there even when I don’t find it. In this endless search of time, I get going in all the ways I can. Again, I say it’s just right there. For there is hope in my world when I say it. The universe around me dances in joy when I say it’s just right there. I have been a lone traveler all this while. Figuring out how much I can do,

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Where were you?

Where were you?

A distressing narrative of missing someone when they cease to exist. An expression of compassion to let that special one know how the world was in their absence. The endless waiting of unknown, The eagerness of arrival, The hope of awaiting The despair of the delay The moment of sinister silence And a multitudinous stirring of the leaves…..all asking where were you? Where were you for these many years? I  waited so much for u

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CHANGE YOUR EMOTIONS : CHANGE YOUR LIFE ! Part I

CHANGE YOUR EMOTIONS : CHANGE YOUR LIFE ! Part I

The Cause of Obesity has Nothing to do with Food  Few days back I met one of my friends.  After few minutes we met, she asked me, “Am I looking too fat?  I have put on weight as just eating, eating and eating and not following diet plan.” An obesity or overweight is very common issue (whether it is only with ladies?, I really do not know) most of us discuss about.  Few people always

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A Quest For Happiness

I was no different from you, when I was where you are today – in a quest for happiness. “Do people still send these?” quipped Ishita as we explored my newly received greeting card. “Apparently they do.” I answered. The last time I had seen one of these was over a half decade back when all the fourth class students had to send a Parents Day greeting card to their parents back home. The queue

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An ODE to DURGA -Part 2 -KUMHAAR TOLI POTTERS.

An ODE to DURGA -Part 2 -KUMHAAR TOLI POTTERS.

JMD From The desk of A Bhakt. ———————— Picturize this: The year is 2016. Around this time of the year Its 4 am in the wee hours. Its The City Of Joy….( well well ) I have my Cannon ready. We go PANDAL HOPPING. Its still dark. Kolkatta is asleep but for a few like yours truly. We go from one artisitic creation to another. The city is full of talent and talented people. If

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THE FACILITATIVE FLAVOUR TO OUTBOUND TEAM BUILDING PROCESS

THE FACILITATIVE FLAVOUR TO OUTBOUND TEAM BUILDING PROCESS

Facilitators are the ‘catalysts’ that can move people, teams and thus organisations towards collaboration and synergy. The facilitation processes. When I got involved in Facilitation, way back in 2007-08, I discovered that Facilitation processes could be well integrated  in Leadership and Team Building programmes. I began with the ‘Divergence’ and ‘Convergence’  process in 4 difference settings in a few ‘Leadership and Team Building’ workshops. I was already using flip charts in my Outdoor trainings. But

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